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Why Men Don’t Go to the Doctor

Monday, May 24th, 2010

“I feel fine.”  “I’m sure it’s nothing.”  “It’ll go away on its own.”  “I don’t have time to go to the doctor.”  If you’ve put off going to the doctor until something is really seriously wrong, you’re not alone.  1,100 men were recently polled about their reluctance to go to the doctor.  Turns out that even under the best circumstances when men have health insurance, have a primary care doctor that they feel comfortable talking to, 58% say that something keeps them from actually going to the doctor.

Why?  What is stopping us from going to the doctor to get screened for cholesterol, high blood pressure, and (yes) STDs?  Could it be that it was always our mothers (or our spouses) who pushed us to go to the doctor and we just don’t like to get pushed to do anything?  Probably.  But the fact is, most STDs don’t have symptoms so there are no major warning signs.  You can have an STD and not feel sick or notice anything on your body that’s different.  And unlike a bad flu or a sprained wrist, you can’t “shake it off” or “tough it out.”  If you don’t know you have an STD, it could lead to complications.  Our advice?  Get an STD test, find out if you need to take care of anything, and get it done.  Otherwise, you’re just playing tricks on yourself.

Look, it’s understandable that we don’t want to go to the doctor to talk about personal issues related to our sexual health.   Convenience and privacy are fundamental to getting tested for HIV, herpes, chlamydia and other STDs.  And if there’s a positive test result, doctors are available by phone seven days a week for consultation and treatment.  You know you want to get an STD test, but you don’t want the hassle.  That’s why we’re here.  Welcome to the sexual health revolution.

STD is Not a Dirty Word

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

In the beginning, we at the STD Test Express news desk had a difficult time telling our friends and families that we help people get tested for STDs.  There was the vague “We provide a health service.” or the more vague and less true “I work for a bank.” This vaguery makes no sense because, of course, we know that screening for sexually transmitted infections saves lives and prevents serious health consequences.  Full stop.

But we’re products of our puritanical culture – a culture that believes in the equation “sex = bad + disease = punishment”.  We’ve sinned by having sex and punished with an STD.  The deep shame this cultural attitude spawns prevents us from talking to our doctors and getting screened and, in turn, prevents us from preventing serious health risks.  In short, this is the thinking that leads to 19 million new STD cases a year and millions more going undiagnosed.

When we associate STDs with blame and shame, it’s no wonder that people aren’t getting screened and, more importantly, treated.  Dr. Abigail Zuger, an infectious-disease physician in Manhattan, wrote a great essay in The New York Times recently. She points out that historically we’ve always associated disease with blame. “Centuries ago we burned witches and torched infidels for poisoning our wells; diseases were the fault of our enemies (in the 15th century, syphilis was simultaneously the Italian disease in France and the French disease in Italy).”  The fact is, the rate of STD infection is alarmingly high.  And why is that?  In part, as Dr. Zuger points out, generations of Americans have now grown up believing that sensible, good people “play safe,” implying that if you catch a sexually transmitted disease, you are not sensible and reckless.  And you got what you deserve.

STDs are a fact of human life.  We can diagnose and treat them before they cause further harm.  Getting tested should not be a shameful experience but one that we can be proud of the same way we feel when we get our cholesterol levels screened and take other preventative measures to ensure our health.

From all of us, we at STD Test Express are here to help people save lives.  It’s time we stop covering our mouth, our eyes, and our ears and start covering our private parts with condoms!

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